Getting DH to adhere to schedule?

danish1978 · 05-24-2008, 09:16 PM

OK, I know dh wants to fly extra becuase he doesn't make much. HOWEVER, this weekend he has off, and therefore we arranged for my parents to come down for a visit. He knew they were coming, and he just volunteerd to to a three day.........leaving tommorrow morning. My folks just got down here tonight! Am I right to be a little pissed? He didn't even ask me, and now he's sulking b/c I'm upset. ARRRRGGGHHHHHHHHH!

Kristie · 05-24-2008, 10:22 PM

remember to always look at the BIGGER PICTURE. try to stay open minded when things like this happen

what's he doing it for... why's he doing it...

if they were his parents, i'd be pissed but they're your parents, so he probably sees no harm since he knows you want to spend time with them.

CCampbell · 05-25-2008, 07:02 AM

Krisitie has a good point. While Chris does the same thing almost everytime my parents are in town and I get pissed, he's doing it for a reason. 1)to avoid my family, haha 2) to give me extra time with them 3) to make the extra $$ and help the airline.

I know it's frustrating but hang in there! I'm sure you'll have a good time with them!

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danish1978 Jetgirls Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: St. Louis, MO Posts: 34 Recipes: Thanks: 8 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	Getting DH to adhere to schedule? OK, I know dh wants to fly extra becuase he doesn't make much. HOWEVER, this weekend he has off, and therefore we arranged for my parents to come down for a visit. He knew they were coming, and he just volunteerd to to a three day.........leaving tommorrow morning. My folks just got down here tonight! Am I right to be a little pissed? He didn't even ask me, and now he's sulking b/c I'm upset. ARRRRGGGHHHHHHHHH!

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Kristie Admin/Owner Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Scottsdale, Arizona Posts: 6,631 Recipes: Thanks: 7 Thanked 17 Times in 17 Posts	Re: Getting DH to adhere to schedule? remember to always look at the BIGGER PICTURE. try to stay open minded when things like this happen what's he doing it for... why's he doing it... if they were his parents, i'd be pissed but they're your parents, so he probably sees no harm since he knows you want to spend time with them. __________________ www.jetcareers.com

05-25-2008, 07:02 AM	#3 (permalink)
CCampbell Jetgirls Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Richmond, Virginia Posts: 25 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: Getting DH to adhere to schedule? Krisitie has a good point. While Chris does the same thing almost everytime my parents are in town and I get pissed, he's doing it for a reason. 1)to avoid my family, haha 2) to give me extra time with them 3) to make the extra $$ and help the airline. I know it's frustrating but hang in there! I'm sure you'll have a good time with them!

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