anyone agree with me here?

Chi829 · 01-09-2006, 07:36 PM

Why is it that when Dh is home for a while that it is always so much ahrder for him to leave again? I feel like it's a flipping roller coaster with him being home,,,, geeze,,,, it was sooo great,, we have been together every night for the last week,,, then he leaves tomorrow for a 4 day

Just felt like whinning,,,, thanks for letting me vent!!

Kristie · 01-09-2006, 09:38 PM

cuz it just is!

MQAAord · 01-10-2006, 08:41 AM

Bill's been off since 28 DEC. He doesn't go back to work til Thurs. I'm ready to kick him out the door.

Chi829 · 01-10-2006, 10:32 AM

haha! thats funny! How did he managae all that time off?

MQAAord · 01-10-2006, 11:41 AM

Lucky with bidding actually. The pref bidding has been good to us so far. He put in to start a trip on the 2nd (guaranteeing he'd have New Years off) and I guess all the specific trips he wanted senior guys wanted too. That, or they did the same thing he did, and bid specific trips, and ended up getting them all, leaving Bill off by default. Either way, he ended up with a 2 week vacation. Which he has pissed away dilly-dallying in the office, doing his usual staying up all night sleeping all day shit, and just drowing himself and wallowing in all the negativity of the industry right now. (Paycuts, etc......)

biochemtine · 01-10-2006, 11:57 AM

I totally know how you feel. The hardest part of the week is the day he leaves and I walk him out to his car, hug him, kiss him, beg him to stay, and then walk back up to my apartment alone.

While he gets on my nerves when he's home, I really despise being alone.

I get to go see him tonight!!!!!!!!

Chi829 · 01-10-2006, 06:44 PM

isn't that the yuckiest feeling? When Bill leaves I always walk him out to his car then walking back into the house without him is always such a weird feeling,,, the house always feels soooo empty without him here. Even though I have my two wonderful dogs,,,, it's still very lonely when he's not here.....

THis must be,,,, i wanna feel sorry for myself day.....I always joke with everyone that I can't wait for the day that I actually look forward to him leaving. I just can't imagine feeling that way right now though.

roz · 01-10-2006, 08:40 PM

DH is home now till next week--he had a trip drop due to Jury Duty. It would have been a very neat capital punishment trial but they excused him after they heard his stories.

For me it's harder because DH does a lot around the house and picks up a lot of the other duties (oil changes, etc). But I also get into the routine of taking care of myself when he is gone. It's nice because when he grocery shops before he leaves, he buys me single servings of salmon, etc so that I don't have to worry about food.

After 26 years, I can truly say that my guy is great!

Chi829 · 01-11-2006, 07:22 AM

Roz, your DH sounds a lot like my DH. Maybe that's why it's so hard sometimes. Bill does so much around here and for me when he's home that when he's gone it's hard not having him around. I miss him like crazy right now and I didn't sleep worth a crap last night because I have had him next to me for the last week. Can't wait til Friday!

Lurker · 01-11-2006, 08:26 AM

Well I know I'm ONLY dating and he is ONLY my BF......BUT, when he leaves the hotel room in his uniform for the next leg of his trip and I've only spent about 30 hours with him, haven't seen him for a month previously and won't see him again for another month - yes, its very hard.

But we have such wicked online chats when he is on trips...gossiping about the tech crew, the country he is in, what he gets upto etc.

01-09-2006, 07:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
Chi829 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Panama City, FL Posts: 1,404 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	anyone agree with me here? Why is it that when Dh is home for a while that it is always so much ahrder for him to leave again? I feel like it's a flipping roller coaster with him being home,,,, geeze,,,, it was sooo great,, we have been together every night for the last week,,, then he leaves tomorrow for a 4 day Just felt like whinning,,,, thanks for letting me vent!! __________________ Jo Happily Mrs. Adams and Mommy to Liam www.joandbillsblog.blogspot.com

01-09-2006, 09:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
Kristie Admin/Owner Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Scottsdale, Arizona Posts: 6,660 Recipes: Thanks: 7 Thanked 17 Times in 17 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? cuz it just is! __________________ www.jetcareers.com

01-10-2006, 08:41 AM	#3 (permalink)
MQAAord Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: A Happy Place Posts: 668 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? Bill's been off since 28 DEC. He doesn't go back to work til Thurs. I'm ready to kick him out the door.

01-10-2006, 10:32 AM	#4 (permalink)
Chi829 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Panama City, FL Posts: 1,404 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? haha! thats funny! How did he managae all that time off? __________________ Jo Happily Mrs. Adams and Mommy to Liam www.joandbillsblog.blogspot.com

01-10-2006, 11:41 AM	#5 (permalink)
MQAAord Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: A Happy Place Posts: 668 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? Lucky with bidding actually. The pref bidding has been good to us so far. He put in to start a trip on the 2nd (guaranteeing he'd have New Years off) and I guess all the specific trips he wanted senior guys wanted too. That, or they did the same thing he did, and bid specific trips, and ended up getting them all, leaving Bill off by default. Either way, he ended up with a 2 week vacation. Which he has pissed away dilly-dallying in the office, doing his usual staying up all night sleeping all day shit, and just drowing himself and wallowing in all the negativity of the industry right now. (Paycuts, etc......)

01-10-2006, 11:57 AM	#6 (permalink)
biochemtine Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: San Francisco Bay Area Posts: 630 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? I totally know how you feel. The hardest part of the week is the day he leaves and I walk him out to his car, hug him, kiss him, beg him to stay, and then walk back up to my apartment alone. While he gets on my nerves when he's home, I really despise being alone. I get to go see him tonight!!!!!!!!

01-10-2006, 06:44 PM	#7 (permalink)
Chi829 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Panama City, FL Posts: 1,404 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? isn't that the yuckiest feeling? When Bill leaves I always walk him out to his car then walking back into the house without him is always such a weird feeling,,, the house always feels soooo empty without him here. Even though I have my two wonderful dogs,,,, it's still very lonely when he's not here..... THis must be,,,, i wanna feel sorry for myself day.....I always joke with everyone that I can't wait for the day that I actually look forward to him leaving. I just can't imagine feeling that way right now though. __________________ Jo Happily Mrs. Adams and Mommy to Liam www.joandbillsblog.blogspot.com

01-10-2006, 08:40 PM	#8 (permalink)
roz Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Philly Posts: 2,272 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? DH is home now till next week--he had a trip drop due to Jury Duty. It would have been a very neat capital punishment trial but they excused him after they heard his stories. For me it's harder because DH does a lot around the house and picks up a lot of the other duties (oil changes, etc). But I also get into the routine of taking care of myself when he is gone. It's nice because when he grocery shops before he leaves, he buys me single servings of salmon, etc so that I don't have to worry about food. After 26 years, I can truly say that my guy is great!

01-11-2006, 07:22 AM	#9 (permalink)
Chi829 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Panama City, FL Posts: 1,404 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? Roz, your DH sounds a lot like my DH. Maybe that's why it's so hard sometimes. Bill does so much around here and for me when he's home that when he's gone it's hard not having him around. I miss him like crazy right now and I didn't sleep worth a crap last night because I have had him next to me for the last week. Can't wait til Friday! __________________ Jo Happily Mrs. Adams and Mommy to Liam www.joandbillsblog.blogspot.com

01-11-2006, 08:26 AM	#10 (permalink)
Lurker Jetgirls Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Hong Kong Posts: 187 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: anyone agree with me here? Well I know I'm ONLY dating and he is ONLY my BF......BUT, when he leaves the hotel room in his uniform for the next leg of his trip and I've only spent about 30 hours with him, haven't seen him for a month previously and won't see him again for another month - yes, its very hard. But we have such wicked online chats when he is on trips...gossiping about the tech crew, the country he is in, what he gets upto etc.

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