guys night out

[jr_lenz]

We have talked about how important it is for us girls to get out and have a break sometimes, but what about our guys?

I am wooried about Lance, he seems very stressed lately. Work of course is always stressful for him, he is stressed about being away from home ( I was put on bed reast for a week...but am doing better) when he comes home, he cleans the house, runs T back and forth to school, does homework, and basketball. He is about to become a daddy, and we are still a few weeks out from having a preemie. I'm not saying that he is this great hero, b/c I do all of that when he is gone, but I can tell that he needs a break. The problem is that he won't. He says that I need him, and being away from us will make it worse for him. I tried to get him to go home to WY for his weekend, but he refuses.

he has no close friends who live in our town. his closest friend lives in Portland, which I would love to get him to go see, but I know he won't go. He has some good friends that live 2 hours north of us. I am thinking about calling them and just setting it up for him to go up for the day, to go snowboarding, and have them take him out for the night and he can come home the next day. Its only two hours away, so if anything happened it would be a hugh deal to get hime home. I think if I set it up and told him that they were waiting for that he might go.

I don't know what else to do for him? he isn't complaining, but I can see it, and it worries me. I know how important it is to get away, and I would love a break too, but right now I think it is more important for him. Any suggestions of how else I can help him? Do you think the ambush send him away is a good idea?