Frustrated!!!!!!

[gna]

I'm sorry it didn't work out Pauline. We've all been there so if you want to vent, vent away! Good luck on the move.

[flyershoe]

So sorry that it didn't work out, Pauline. I will be sending positive thoughts and lots of hugs your way! Moving out is so tough, too... Well, you never know what the future will hold. Chances are in a few years you'll be with someone you'll really click with and be very much happy and in love, and that will be when your ex will want you back. Always seems to work that way. I wish you luck and I hope to still see you around the site!

[pica5104]

Hello everyone.
Well heres an update. Finally.
Jim and I did end things in December and parted ways shortly after January 1st. We wanted to remain friends. So we did and saw each other frequesntly. At first it was ugly! Very ugly and kind of funny. We got in an argument over a picnic basket and who got to keep it! lol
Well about a month and a half ago we started talking about us and where we went wrong and what happened. We both did a lot of thinking. We then decided to have a weekend just the 2 of us. We went camping in Sedona, did a lot of talking and a lot more talking. Then Jim told me he wanted to give us another try. He wanted to get back together as he did a lot of thinking about where he went wrong and oh boy did I do a lot of thinking and by just hanging out a lot more with my family saw some things that he was talking about where he would be uncomfortable, as that was one thing we argued about.
We are communicating a lot more and decided we will see how the year goes living in different homes and see what '07 brings us. We still have very strong feeling for each other and feel this can really work we just needed a little break as I went straight from my parents house to his and he wanted to make sure this was where he wanted to be. We were a little scared we deicided.
Thanks to everyone that offered help when I needed it and offered the advice.
Ive had a difficult year and I think everything is now going back to normal. Im excited about the new year!

[flygirl813126]

I'm glad that you have found a way to work on things. I hope that you both continue to work on the hard spots and don't jump in too deep. I am sure that with communication things will continue.

[pica5104]

Originally Posted by flygirl813126

I'm glad that you have found a way to work on things. I hope that you both continue to work on the hard spots and don't jump in too deep. I am sure that with communication things will continue.

Thanks!
Yeah we are taking things one step at a time so we are both wanting it to work this time so we are taking our time with things.

[Kristie]

that's the way to do it... sometimes it's one step forward, two steps back.. so long as you stay in communicado and just take it easy, you'll do ok!