It's done....

I was pretty embarrassed to come here and tell you all that the conversation I'd intended did not take place the way in which I'd intended. I have been struggling with this issue since then, but tonight, I chose to send it in a very lengthy email to him.

I won't lie to you and tell you it was easy or that I am relieved. Nor that I have stopped loving him....that would be a lie.

However...I was due to spend time with him this week as he will be doing additional training and I just could not continue things as they were/are. But he is free now to be or do now as he chooses.

Sorry for the lack of details...but I am not in a very good way right now.

dg

[TheWife]

I'm sorry that you are hurting but I hope in the long run this will make things a lot better for you. Love sucks some times doesn't it.

[MQAAord]

I'm very sorry you're hurting.

You did what had to be done, and I know that it was not easy. Stay strong! You've done the right thing and we're here to support you.

[skibum515]

thanks for updating us! don't worry, you'll get through it, stay strong and don't be afraid to cry (a lot) if needed!

[Barbara]

What you did took guts, dancing girl. Don't cave in, during the next few weeks, either (as we all have in the past, I'm sure). You're a brave lady.

[Kristie]

I have to admit also that it took a lot of guts to break it off and to come here and talk to us again.... your quite a brave woman and I totally give you credit for that...

Strength is what you need to keep on the path your on now.. we'll be here to help hold you up if you want to talk or what not....

sometimes things take a little longer than necessary but it takes time to gain courage and self confidence to do what you had to do... I wouldn't worry about how long it took or what it took to make your stand...

just keep moving forward and onward....

[momof5]

This is making me ill. She has not ended the affair. She spent the night with him last night and has plans to meet with him later this week. He is based in Georgia but lives elsewhere and they plan on continuing the affair. Please stop patting her on the back. She had no intention of ending this, she thought he was going to break up with her.

[Barbara]

[img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] sigh. I'm done with this.

How are you, Momof5?? [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Sheesh, I'm struggling having just 2!! How old are you kids??

[momof5]

Hi Barbara! Our kids are 17, 16, 14, 13 and 12. I will start a new thread later and introduce myself.

This is the first forum that I have ever posted on. Affairs are nothing but lies and to see her do it to this group made my hair stand on end. I would not go to a "Zero population" forum and brag about the basket ball team that I gave birth to. My heart breaks for his wife. We all must remember that they met in a chat room and something tells me that he is the type of pilot that gives the rest a bad name.

I don't know who you are, nor were you here when I came to this forum. However, you have the wrong girl and wrong pilot. I don't understand why you have this problem with me. I have never addressed you personally or in any other way. To attack someone you don't even know is wrong. Especially when you have the wrong information and the wrong people.

I apologize to the women of this group...I have no idea who this person is nor where she obtained this information.

dg