Just joined, hopefully it's not too late for us. Hello everyone...I'm here to find some support and advice that might be able to save my marriage. I've been with my husband for nearly five years and most of this time he's been training to become the pilot he is today. We worked hard to see his dream come true...when he left for an interview in atlanta, ga I had no idea that this would be the beginning of the end. He accepted the job with ASA, left for training and left me in shambles. I became severly depressed and turned to another male friend for comfort. BIG MISTAKE. I became confused and started to question my marriage and my hubby's motives for taking a job so far away from me and from our daughter. AFter a few months of fighting and going back and forth with our relationship, it looks like he wants out and has no room in his heart for me. I am begging him to think this through and telling him that I would do ANYTHING to keep this together. I'm completely crushed. I wish that I was reading this site when he first left and I felt the first wave of adjustment coming on. I see that I registered and wrote that I was struggling....but I had no idea it would devolve into this. I'm in panic mode and am praying and visualizing a positive outcome. I really hope that it isn't too late.
OK, anybody else going through a divorce or a near-divorce? I would love to read your stories...
thanks for taking the time to read mine... |