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Old 07-12-2007, 11:45 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I am so upset with DH tonight, well for the last two weeks.

Training is over, he is sitting reserve, not great but training either! Anyway I told him that I wanted him to plan something romatic for us.

I should back up and give you background before the ranting starts. I married the most unromatic man on the face of the earth. ladies we have gotten into fights about *romance* before. and his straight face honest to God answer for being *romatic*..."well I clean the toilet for you today". Let the swooning begin, he clean the toilet for me!

Through very intense mind changing thought processes, I have learned to except his romatic gestures...he brings me a cup of coffee everyday that he is home, he brings me free samples from the hotels that he thinks I would like, he carries my lipgloss in his pocket.

But everyone once in awhile I ask him for MY KIND OF ROMANCE! I lart him know in a nice way that my emotional tank is low and I need a recharge. This time we were driving to the airport and and I said "I need you to plan something romatic for me, you are off this weekend and Trady is with grandparents peferct timing"

weekend can and went, late Sunday night I asked...his respons "don't remember you asking" got the this job, lots of pressure, timing is hard for me, mind running a thousand miles an hour, speech with an I really messed up, promise I will paln for next weekend. At this time went went over a LIST OF THING THAT I THOUGHT WERE ROMATIC and that didn't cost money, that we don't have. So all he had to do was pick from the list plan and carry it out. Like I said I have way lowered by expectations I give him all the information he needs, no guessing, no mind reading, just plan and carry out.

Well weekend comes and goes. Nothing