On the rocks

amg29 · 07-20-2004, 04:06 PM

Hey all,
How is the summer going? Hope everything is going well for everybody!
For myself and Hans, it's a little "touch and go". [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

We have decided to take a little break for about a month. It's just been really super tough with him on reserve and scheduling just keeps sh**ing on him everyday.
I guess I am questioning whether I can handle this for lengths of time and if I can be "single" for the rest of my life when my SO is very far away.
We feel like we haven't been able to build on our relationship and have actually stepped into the "friends" mode.
Gosh, it just hurts 'cause we really care about eachother and my eyes are still puffy from crying since Sunday when he was here to visit for the first time in 4 weeks.
Anyway, just wanted to keep you updated!
Thanks for all your support and friendship on the board, I truly appreciate everything!
I will let you know what is happening.
Take care,
Andrea [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

skibum515 · 07-20-2004, 04:48 PM

aw [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] *hugs* don't worry, you guys will get through this!! Like my mom always said, if it was meant to be, it will be!! just keep on chugging away, take it one day at a time, and don't hesitate to cry or vent as needed [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Kristie · 07-21-2004, 01:42 PM

I'm sorry Andrea :cry: ... this is such a difficult time for you! its just tough at the beginning (of any pilots career) and there's just no way around it. But the light at the end of the tunnel is that each day he's flying is a day he's moving up the ladder and that's the message you have to keep reminding yourself of.. it DOES get better!

I agree with Emily.. you'll get thru it and it may seem like forever + a day...just keep plowing ahead (forward and onward I always say!), take things one day at a time and feel free to talk, shout, vent, cry anytime on here!!

*HUGS* (hands you the ben & jerry's with a spoon)

07-20-2004, 04:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
amg29 Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 15 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	On the rocks Hey all, How is the summer going? Hope everything is going well for everybody! For myself and Hans, it's a little "touch and go". [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] We have decided to take a little break for about a month. It's just been really super tough with him on reserve and scheduling just keeps sh**ing on him everyday. I guess I am questioning whether I can handle this for lengths of time and if I can be "single" for the rest of my life when my SO is very far away. We feel like we haven't been able to build on our relationship and have actually stepped into the "friends" mode. Gosh, it just hurts 'cause we really care about eachother and my eyes are still puffy from crying since Sunday when he was here to visit for the first time in 4 weeks. Anyway, just wanted to keep you updated! Thanks for all your support and friendship on the board, I truly appreciate everything! I will let you know what is happening. Take care, Andrea [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

07-20-2004, 04:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
skibum515 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Park City Posts: 1,262 Recipes: Thanks: 2 Thanked 10 Times in 10 Posts	Re: On the rocks aw [img]/forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] hugs don't worry, you guys will get through this!! Like my mom always said, if it was meant to be, it will be!! just keep on chugging away, take it one day at a time, and don't hesitate to cry or vent as needed [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

07-21-2004, 01:42 PM	#3 (permalink)
Kristie Admin/Owner Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Scottsdale, Arizona Posts: 6,653 Recipes: Thanks: 7 Thanked 17 Times in 17 Posts	Re: On the rocks I'm sorry Andrea :cry: ... this is such a difficult time for you! its just tough at the beginning (of any pilots career) and there's just no way around it. But the light at the end of the tunnel is that each day he's flying is a day he's moving up the ladder and that's the message you have to keep reminding yourself of.. it DOES get better! I agree with Emily.. you'll get thru it and it may seem like forever + a day...just keep plowing ahead (forward and onward I always say!), take things one day at a time and feel free to talk, shout, vent, cry anytime on here!! HUGS (hands you the ben & jerry's with a spoon)

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