Been going back and forth. - Page 2

jr_lenz · 09-21-2007, 12:59 PM

I say don't call. If your heart was into it you already would have done it. You can feel bad for someone without out having to start a friendship with them. This is just an example of my life. When my ex broke up with his girlfriend...who I was distant friends with before they started to date....I felt bad for her, I knew that she REALLY wanted to get married, and had a total different idea of the relationship than he did. I sent her an email just saying I was sorry that it didn't work out and that breaking up sucks...no lets get together, (don't really want to hang out with her)

point is don't offer a friendship, but maybe drop her a card to let her know that you are thinking about her.

skibum515 · 09-22-2007, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by jr_lenz

I say don't call. If your heart was into it you already would have done it. You can feel bad for someone without out having to start a friendship with them. This is just an example of my life. When my ex broke up with his girlfriend...who I was distant friends with before they started to date....I felt bad for her, I knew that she REALLY wanted to get married, and had a total different idea of the relationship than he did. I sent her an email just saying I was sorry that it didn't work out and that breaking up sucks...no lets get together, (don't really want to hang out with her)

point is don't offer a friendship, but maybe drop her a card to let her know that you are thinking about her.

that's a good idea!

Regina · 09-22-2007, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by jr_lenz

I say don't call. If your heart was into it you already would have done it. You can feel bad for someone without out having to start a friendship with them. This is just an example of my life. When my ex broke up with his girlfriend...who I was distant friends with before they started to date....I felt bad for her, I knew that she REALLY wanted to get married, and had a total different idea of the relationship than he did. I sent her an email just saying I was sorry that it didn't work out and that breaking up sucks...no lets get together, (don't really want to hang out with her)

point is don't offer a friendship, but maybe drop her a card to let her know that you are thinking about her.

Good idea. I agree.

Kristie · 09-22-2007, 08:57 PM

me too!

the_woman_99 · 09-25-2007, 05:49 PM

After getting back from visitng my SO in KY I decided that I am just going to let things go by as they always have been. If we come across each others paths in the future then we can talk about it then if she wants to.

Thanks everyone for all the great advice. I feel better about my desicion and don't feel like I am being a selfish brat at the same time

skibum515 · 09-25-2007, 06:33 PM

good for you!

We didn't end up going to snowbird because of rain/snow, so it looks like we might try for this weekend or next if you are still interested in coming!

the_woman_99 · 09-26-2007, 11:32 AM

Of course I am interested just let me know what the plan is

09-21-2007, 12:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
jr_lenz Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Idaho Posts: 888 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts	Re: Been going back and forth. I say don't call. If your heart was into it you already would have done it. You can feel bad for someone without out having to start a friendship with them. This is just an example of my life. When my ex broke up with his girlfriend...who I was distant friends with before they started to date....I felt bad for her, I knew that she REALLY wanted to get married, and had a total different idea of the relationship than he did. I sent her an email just saying I was sorry that it didn't work out and that breaking up sucks...no lets get together, (don't really want to hang out with her) point is don't offer a friendship, but maybe drop her a card to let her know that you are thinking about her. __________________ He wasn't sure he wanted a baby sister, but he loved her the moment he saw her.

09-22-2007, 08:57 PM	#14 (permalink)
Kristie Admin/Owner Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Scottsdale, Arizona Posts: 6,729 Recipes: Thanks: 7 Thanked 18 Times in 18 Posts	Re: Been going back and forth. me too! __________________ www.jetcareers.com

09-25-2007, 05:49 PM	#15 (permalink)
the_woman_99 Jetgirls Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: PA Posts: 399 Recipes: Thanks: 2 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Re: Been going back and forth. After getting back from visitng my SO in KY I decided that I am just going to let things go by as they always have been. If we come across each others paths in the future then we can talk about it then if she wants to. Thanks everyone for all the great advice. I feel better about my desicion and don't feel like I am being a selfish brat at the same time

09-25-2007, 06:33 PM	#16 (permalink)
skibum515 Jetgirls Ol' School Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Park City Posts: 1,280 Recipes: Thanks: 2 Thanked 10 Times in 10 Posts	Re: Been going back and forth. good for you! We didn't end up going to snowbird because of rain/snow, so it looks like we might try for this weekend or next if you are still interested in coming! __________________

09-26-2007, 11:32 AM	#17 (permalink)
the_woman_99 Jetgirls Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: PA Posts: 399 Recipes: Thanks: 2 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	Re: Been going back and forth. Of course I am interested just let me know what the plan is

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