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amg29 · 06-25-2004, 12:18 PM

Hi everyone!
I know, I know....haven't made any new posts for awhile, but wanted to see how everyone is doing!
I just finished a month-long summer class in Economics (received an AB!!!) so was studying away...but, it doesn't stop 'cause now I'm taking Statistics for 6 weeks! AAAHHH!!!!
BUT, the good news is after this, I will be taking nonstop nursing classes for my degree and will finish in 2006. Yea!
Ok, so that's the update on me.....
Hans is doing well, and is on reserve at his new base in Dulles, Va. He is so excited and happy too!

And, I know I've talked about this before when he was in training, but gosh, it's becoming so tough with him on reserve. We have not seen each other for 3 weeks now and have had multiple "what should we do" or "where is our relationship going" type talks. It's very stressful considering both of our situations.

I've found out now that he has two days off before the end of the month, but he isn't sure if he wants to visit since I'm in school in the mornings. It really hurts to hear that, and wonder if he would think that way if we were just first dating???

We've been together for almost 2 and 1/2 years...it's been tough, but lately....much like the other post...I feel like he's NEVER here. How can you build a relationship when you don't ever see eachother??

I took all of your kind advice, and we have called and e-mailed eachother. But, sometimes Hans is too tired and "forgets" to call. Or, he's so busy I feel like I am second when it comes to what is important to him (it seems like airplanes are No.1).
I've talked to him about all of this, and we are both struggling in what to do and think because we've never been in a long-distance relationship before!!!!
I love Hans, but I am beginning to wonder if we can make it work for a lifetime. We have talked about getting married after I am done with school, but lately that seems so far away and we are both having some serious doubts.
Anyway, just wanted to get some responses from people who have been through this. I just don't want to make a mistake either way.

Thanks so much for being so kind and for having this forum also. You have no idea how much it means to me to be able to "talk" to people who understand. I appreciate it!
Take care,
Andrea [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

06-25-2004, 12:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
amg29 Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 15 Recipes: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	It\'s been a while... Hi everyone! I know, I know....haven't made any new posts for awhile, but wanted to see how everyone is doing! I just finished a month-long summer class in Economics (received an AB!!!) so was studying away...but, it doesn't stop 'cause now I'm taking Statistics for 6 weeks! AAAHHH!!!! BUT, the good news is after this, I will be taking nonstop nursing classes for my degree and will finish in 2006. Yea! Ok, so that's the update on me..... Hans is doing well, and is on reserve at his new base in Dulles, Va. He is so excited and happy too! And, I know I've talked about this before when he was in training, but gosh, it's becoming so tough with him on reserve. We have not seen each other for 3 weeks now and have had multiple "what should we do" or "where is our relationship going" type talks. It's very stressful considering both of our situations. I've found out now that he has two days off before the end of the month, but he isn't sure if he wants to visit since I'm in school in the mornings. It really hurts to hear that, and wonder if he would think that way if we were just first dating??? We've been together for almost 2 and 1/2 years...it's been tough, but lately....much like the other post...I feel like he's NEVER here. How can you build a relationship when you don't ever see eachother?? I took all of your kind advice, and we have called and e-mailed eachother. But, sometimes Hans is too tired and "forgets" to call. Or, he's so busy I feel like I am second when it comes to what is important to him (it seems like airplanes are No.1). I've talked to him about all of this, and we are both struggling in what to do and think because we've never been in a long-distance relationship before!!!! I love Hans, but I am beginning to wonder if we can make it work for a lifetime. We have talked about getting married after I am done with school, but lately that seems so far away and we are both having some serious doubts. Anyway, just wanted to get some responses from people who have been through this. I just don't want to make a mistake either way. Thanks so much for being so kind and for having this forum also. You have no idea how much it means to me to be able to "talk" to people who understand. I appreciate it! Take care, Andrea [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]