Craig, it shows a lot of strength of character considering this facet of the industry so early in your intended career. Kristie is so right. It takes a special kind of person to be a pilot's wife, sometimes it is darn hard work, but it is also rewarding, and you can most certainly have a strong and healthy family relationship as an airline pilot. In fact, I met my husband in our very first class on our very first day at ERAU (DAB campus). We have been married more than 10 years, through flight instructing, two commercial airlines, (he's currently applying to his third), and all while commuting for the last 6 years. You'll find that it won't just be YOU "working" in the industry, it will be the support and encouragement from your wife and family that will "work" with you and for you. Some considerations will depend on whether you to decide to commute or not (live in a different city than which you are based). You may find a commute a bit burdensome at times,
but many find that commuting works best for them depending on your lifestyle choices, where your families live, where your wife works, etc. Definitely do not give up a lifelong dream because the "right match" will HELP you to reach your goals!