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Originally Posted by Mrs.Alchemist 
Originally Posted by jr_lenz 
I stand by my statement. There are always other options in life. Always.
While there might ALWAYS be other options, some don't have the luxury of pursuing options that take more time, or require a move (we didn't know I was going to lose my job). In general, I agree that all other options should be explored. We discussed every option to great length, and made the choice we felt was necessary. Did I come on here looking for support? Yes I did. And thus far, I've been a little hurt and dissappointed by the attacks being sent my way. Some have stood up for me and I greatly appreciate it. Please understand that this is not the "easy way out" for us by any means. DH does not have "shiny jet syndrome". However, he and I are a team-and responsible for another little person. Thus, every choice we make is as a unit, and for the entire family.  |
If people who are making judgemental comments would please listen to what others are saying, perhaps this was "THE option" for them. You can qualify "other options" any way you want to suit your interests--what you want/need is not necessarily what's best for someone else. If you want to symbolically "spit" on a GoJet pilot or spouse, that's your "option", too. If not, move on, find one of those "options" to work somewhere else; blaming another person for your losses does nothing. I personally find this all despicable behavior for any adult. Another option is to take the high road and get over it.