[scissorhands]

I have heard many disturbing stories from d/h about things that go on. It doesnt bother me that he goes for meals with his crew. I would hate to think of him eating alone all the time, however he does eat in his room most of the time. He has a short fuse for nonsence, thank god! He does pack his meals and he does eat alone alot to save money and to eat a bit healthier. We do not get alot of alone time due to no sitter as well, Most of the time, when d/h is home it is catch up on family time and home cooked meals as . I feel it is kinda not fair to expect d/h to eat another meal out as well as expect my daughter to bottle up her excitement that daddy is home just to leave her with a sitter, she is just as happy as me to have daddy home, it sucks we have such a short amount of family time together now that d/h is on reserve and is constantly being jr assed. It takes an incredible amount of inner strengh and trust on behalf of us to adjust our lives and have so few of our needs met. However on the flip side, it is not just the men that cheat, it is just as easy for the wives to find comfort elsewhere. It is all about mutual respect and trust.