this is something I am really really struggling with and after 7 years, it is still difficult. I use to be a F/A and it is really hard work but when you are done, you get to eat in a restaurant, relax, see the city, your time is your time. I really miss traveling. I really miss being in different places and staying in different hotels. I loved it. and I do get very resentful of DH still flying. He has so much more free time than I do. I don't get to eat in restaurants or travel (mortgage issues)
I do'nt regret our decision. I am home w/our young children and love raising them. but the thought of getting a few night away sounds like heaven.
and like some of the others said, it seems that when I've got a little one puking or coughing, I'll get a call saying something like, "yea, I'm at the beach' and I wanna SCREAM!!! I know this is his job. but I don't know how to turn these feelings off.
Nonrevving is not an option. DH flies for private company now. I would love some advice.
THX
