[quote=cmei04;57419]Well I'm happy for both of you that you started a plan. We are also thinking about moving out of state but having a 3yr old an one on the way makes it harder to think abt moving since we have a big family here so basically our support team is here in So Cal. If we move and hubby is out all the time, I will go crazy by myself!
What do I do?[/quote]
In my honest opinion (and this is just my .02)
You do what you have to do for you and your immediate family. My hubby and I were born and raised in Northern California and moved away from "home" over 7 years ago. We moved with two very little ones and have added two more little ones since our departure. Both sides of our family still live there and of course some dear friends, but you couldn't pay me to move back. (Not that I could afford to move back anyway
). I have learned with 5 moves in the last 6 years- that you can make a "home" anywhere. Good Luck!