Re: question about living separate lives Oh, i just read the first post. Corporate is so iffy right now, but aren't all jobs...? I don't know if you remember, but my husband was offered a job with a law firm that is at the top of it's game. The money cut just wasn't reasonable enough to take, and the company seemed very stable. They were even talking about getting additional planes. Well, we just heard a few days ago, that they actually got rid of a plane. He would have lost that job, and no health insurance...which would have been miserable for us with everything going on right now. Like I said, I think all jobs are iffy, but the first thing corporate does (at least from what I have heard) is to start cutting their flight departments.
As far as the f.o. part, does he feel obligated now to take them sight seeing? If he does it already in a airline setting, I wouldn't see too much of a difference. I know you give a lot of way when it comes to trust and stuff, so it doesn't seem like something that would typically bother you unless something else was going on with the relationship.
I guess I would recall the whole situation with someone who had a husband flying corportate on this site (can't remember who), but he started picking her up for work, getting her coffee, sight seeing, buying speedos, etc. That would worry me.
We talked about the same type thing when he was going to take the corporate because there was a female pilot he would fly with sometimes. It really didn't bother me because it was no different than staying in a hotel with other f.o.'s and f.a.'s. But, I guess flying with the same person over and over again could lead to a closer relationship. I don't know. |