[Bigsweetie]

You could always go by yourself. Honestly, if he's not going to work on this with you I don't know what else to say! It then comes down to what are you willing to live with.... But don't sell your life short. You deserve happiness and if that means taking nice vacations with your H (or even by yourself) then you need to make it clear to your DH how important this is to you and the state of your marriage. One person can't make all the compromises or all the effort in a marriage.

I would love to say "just go on vacation by yourself and if he doesn't like it, tough" but that's not really the best way to handle differences, IMO.

If one person isn't willing to work on the marriage, where does that leave the other person? I'd go talk to a professional on your own... just to see what he/she says. Can't hurt!