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Old 05-04-2008, 02:33 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Default Re: question about living separate lives

I'm a little late getting in on this, so I am going to start from the first post.

I have to admit that I get a little envous of the "road life" I'm with bigsweetie, I need sleep and don't get out very much besides work, (which I'm still off from). I am a big people person and I get envous that he gets new people and places to go to each week/month.

I also would have a hard time with him going to new places, and heading out to entertain the crew. once or twice maybe, but all the time would get to me. But I like some other, have some baggage that involves some trust issues.

BUT, here is my advice, when Lance first started flying commercial I was beside my self with worry. He has alway been Mr. entertainer and feels like he needs to be the center of the party. One of our biggest fights was because his roommate was throwing a superbowl party and he wouldn't walk into the house while on the phone with me, because he didn't want to be "that guy" is on the phone with his girl. It didn't matter that it was our only 15 minute window to talk for the day...anyway, back to the point.

I was worried that Lance was going to be headed out all of the time, wanting to entertain ect, and that I was going to be hard on us. But he totaly hasn't been that way. He is so ready to sit and veg out when he hits the hotel, and is trying to get back in shape so he works out more than he goes out.

I guess my point is that maybe he won't go out as much as you THINK he would. Does he know how you feel about him going out?
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