[Mistress Trista]

I didn't mean don't tell her at all, just approach it carefully. I had a mother approach me about my husband's guns one time. She was extremely high and mighty and actually wanted to check that they were secured to her satisfaction and even wanted me to show her my dresser drawers so she could see we didn't have any in there that her child could get to. I told her absolutely not!!

She could either take my word for it, or get over it. There was no way I was going to open each of my dresser drawers for her to inspect. Was she out of her mind? Her attitude pissed me off right from the start, so I was already a little mad before she even got that far. (LIke I was a bad mother for having them in the house at all, even though they were locked up, separate from the bullets)

Sometimes when people approach about children, they might have good intentions, but they come across as condescending or better than you. Not saying that you will, I'm just advising to be very careful and try to keep it as friendly as possible.