Re: Needing some advice on location :( I've been with Nick since Oct 2002 and I didn't actually move to be with him near his base until last year. It sounds like you should stay put in Florida. He is the one with the flight benefits and he can fly to see you. Nick made the effort to fly back to PHX as much as he could. It let me know he was committed to the relationship. My job was stable and I wanted to live in AZ. It didn't make sense for me to follow Nick all around the country. The main reason it took 5 years for me to move back to the East coast is that we knew we wanted to get married and start a family so living near his base made sense since our families are close by. In addition, no that Nick works at CAL his bases won't change like they would when he was with a regional.
If there is no reason to move to be with your bf, don't move. If your relationship is 'meant to be', things will work out.
__________________ Amanda Loving wife of Nick, an Int'l FO for Continental flying the 757/767 based in EWR! We're expecting baby #1 on May 30, 2009! |