ok,, here is my 2 cents. We live in Florida. Hubby is based in Atlanta. My family is here in Florida. You couldnt pay me enough to live in Atlanta (or whever he is based) he chose this career and when he did, it didnt mean that I had to give up my education, or a job that I love or moving away from my family. He know when he took this job and when he started pursuing it that he would have to commute. Im supposrtive, but we dont "chase metal". This way everyone is happy. He's happy cause he is doing his dream job and Im happy because I get to stay in FLorida near my family and stay at a job that I love. Granted he is on reserve now (as I type ) in ATL waiting in schdeuling to call him for a trip. He left yesterday, he will be there til Monday. If we lived there, yeah, sure he'd be at home with me more than likely but thats the price we pay so I get to stay in Florida. This reserve thing is only temporary,,,, and when he holds a line,, it would all be the same anyway, if we lived here or there,, make sense? I hope so. I say stick to your guns,,, Dont move,,, you deserve to be happy too!
