Thats a shame that its so hard to find time to chat
I would find that very hard to deal with. Thankfully at the moment I am a SAHM with a daughter who isn't in school or anything so we're pretty free to follow DH most places (we spent some time out in Amsterdam with him while he was away) and change our schedules to fit round his. That won't be as easy in the coming weeks once this baby arrives but it will settle down again eventually. I'm considering myself very lucky reading all the threads on here, lots of you have it a lot harder than I do and I'm feeling much more capable of keeping going since finding this place.