I suspect that, now that he's got a job with an airline, you all will have a considerably more settled life. Not like a "regular" family's, of course, but better than the past couple of years!
As far as I can tell, most pilots' wives have very active lives of their own. We are writers, accountants
, teachers (that's me!), nurse practitioners, flight attendants, students, musicians, engineers, insurance agents, pilots (yes, that's right, we can be pilots, too!), administrative professionals, bankers, research assistants, physical therapists, real estate agents, moms, sisters, daughters, and best friends. We volunteer, we go to church, we drive kids around to their activities, we exercise, we look after our dogs.
Sometimes we have to do these things without our significant others. We get through, though, and so will you.
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