Re: Don't like hubby's CAP/friend Sorry guys, have been out hiking and camping in the back country the last couple of days. Needless to say, no internet out there.
Hooking up? My defintion implies sex, but I really don't know for sure. The CAP and FA disappear at the same time, in about the same state of intoxication after much PDA. I am assuming sex but I have no postive way to know for sure. CAP may not be the most upstanding kinda of guy, but wasn't telling detail stories at the breakfast table. (Thank goodness.)
How do hubby and CAP end up with similar schedules? They bid the same way, award 4 day trips with daily credit equal or greater than X, award 3 day trips with daily credit equal or greater than X, ect. Hubby is newish to the process and after one not so great month has been asking others on how they arrange their bid. This CAP suggested this method and hubby tried it. (It actually returned good trips with lots of flying time, which was what hubby was hoping for.)
Hubby and I have discussed my thoughts/concerns with this CAP. I am pretty sure he heard me. He is a big boy. I am going to give him a chance to make his own way. I mentioned earlier, I think my over anlyazing has to do with me and not so much any bad behavior from hubby.
Hubby and I have been married 6 years but during this transition to a new lifestyle we are having to learn some new lessons and relearn some old lessons. Personally, I think that is apart of growing and changing as individuals and making sure our marriage grows and changes with us. |