Don't like hubby's CAP/friend I don't really know where to post this thread.
Hubby and I have been married over 6 years and dated for 4 yrs before that. We have never really had this problem before. We usually have very similar thoughts about friends.
Hubby has a CAP that he really likes, but I have met the guy and I really don't like him. He has a girlfriend (never met her) but both two overnights I was with hubby the CAP and FA (different FA's) hooked up. CAP drinks like a fish.
Hubby says CAP and girlfriend are not serious. It still bothers me. Trying to pinpont my feelings. I am nervous about hubby being around "bad" influnences. They spend so much time together on trips and hubby has 3 trips with CAP in Nov. Jealous in general that hubby is making close friends that I don't get to spend much time with. And (general statement) acholol has a way of making people act stupid.
Hubby and I have talked about it. I don't want to push too much. I trust him and his judgement. But I made my opinion clear and expressed my concerns. I think that I am going to let it go for a while and see how things progess. Any thoughts? |