[SeatClutcher]

I wonder if knowing when you ARE ready is the same as knowing when you definitely AREN'T (ever) going to be ready.

We decided about a month ago on the latter. For us, it had to do with who we are now, what age we are, what we want to do, and what we don't want to do. As far as "knowing"...I've always known, but as I get a little older, imagining an "oops!" and what that would mean just sort of solidified the NO.