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Cassie--deep breaths!

You need to focus on school and he needs to focus on training. Forget the house now--focus on what you need to do because it's the focus on the future that will enable you to get to the house in due course.

Focus--you both need to support each other now in becoming the best you can be. Timing is never what we expect. So we deal with it.

Hugs.