Hi, and welcome!
You're absolutely right... seems like a cruel joke, huh.
But in some respects, it's also a blessing (at least I'm really, really trying to look at it that way). Being independent is something that takes guts and a little getting used to (and yes, some tears in the adjustment period), but ultimately it's a great thing for both you and your relationship. We're all here to support you through it all as well!