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Originally Posted by oppita  Try to look at this from other side. He hade 4 months with you...
and he is the one whoīs gonna miss a lot.
I just can not see him as gentleman though..heīs typical man...while he can have fun with you but no strings attached, thatīs perfect arrangment for him. You opened up last time, and he didnīt have guts to tell you? oh..he has guts to fly a 30 000 kg plane but not to tell you?
He knew all this time that heīs going to move, now he uses it as excuse to tell you he donīt want to get involved in relationship..common! (There are plenty of guys flying up and down all over the country to get see their beloved...)
I donīt wanna sound hursh sweetie, but he only answered you when you pushed him to do so..otherwise he would be doing the same all the time.  |
I thought what he wrote her was pretty nice, and since it's hard to know his side of things (all we hear on a forum is one side, which makes it easy to imagine and assume), it seems unfair to call him a "typical man" (not sure what that is) for enjoying his time with her, but not committing.
Maybe he liked her and enjoyed hanging out with her (he must have!), but knows it isn't THE relationship in their lives. It's hard to fault someone for recognizing that.
And while it would be nice to be brave, it's not always that easy. Hell - when I asked Ian to marry me, I couldn't even do it to his face. I called it out from the kitchen! Flying a plane hardly takes as much bravery as does breaking something off with someone. Ask any pilot.
