Try to look at this from other side. He hade 4 months with you...
and he is the one whoīs gonna miss a lot.
I just can not see him as gentleman though..heīs typical man...while he can have fun with you but no strings attached, thatīs perfect arrangment for him. You opened up last time, and he didnīt have guts to tell you? oh..he has guts to fly a 30 000 kg plane but not to tell you?
He knew all this time that heīs going to move, now he uses it as excuse to tell you he donīt want to get involved in relationship..common! (There are plenty of guys flying up and down all over the country to get see their beloved...)
I donīt wanna sound hursh sweetie, but he only answered you when you pushed him to do so..otherwise he would be doing the same all the time.
I know youīll be OK; and please keep in mind that you deserve somebody, who will keep in touch, who corresponds to your feeling, who will fly 1000 miles to see you for a while..
I got once a great book from my best gf:
He's Just Not That Into You: Your Daily Wake-up Call
itīs written with humor..but it really opened my eyes..And I loved one example given:
two people met, they go on date, like each other aparrently, than the guy didnīt call her when he said he will. days goes by and he finally called her like 10 days after..apologizing, that he was so busy in work.Her answer: great.Happy to hear that you are well. But you had a chance (one) and you didnīt make it!
Sheīs in charge! I had a blast when I read it..and I still go back to the book from time to time..to remind me...that Iīm worth it and much more.
Itīs not my intention to put you down, I hope I didnīt do it...
Hugs
