[Regina]

I guess I would have a few questions: if his first marriage ended because of infidelity with a flight attendant/s, then I may worry.

On the otherhand, if this doesn't apply, then I would say that there are reasons why he is married to you and not the other flight attendants. He is compatable with you and not them. Their relationships didn't last for a reason, and your's has progressed to marriage for a reason.

My mom and dad (not pilots) have had insecurity issues since I can remember. My mom used to go through my dad's things, made accusations, etc., and it caused some serious damage in their relationship. I would say that someone can be so obsessed with it that they can become psychotic about it.

If I were you, I would sit down and have a serious talk with your husband about what you guys would feel comfortable with while he is on his trips that would relieve some of the insecurities that you feel. Like for instance, what can you guys agree to about meal situations? Is it okay for him to have dinner or lunch with the flight attendants if the entire crew is there? If you both have guidelines of what you both expect from each other, then you might feel more comfortable when he is on his trips.