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I found myself in the early days of our LDR testing my partner for proof that he loved me etc etc, and the more he offered, the more I wanted. I had to go cold turkey to force myself to become more rational!
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I've had the exact same experience and had to do the exact same thing too...cold turkey isn't easy to do but it makes it easier to enjoy life and not worry so much. insecurities breed more insecurities. if your seeking reassurance too much, you could end up pushing him away.. however, if your really not secure in his answers and his ability to reassure you, you might need to look inside a bit more.