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His reasoning for being so distant was the fact that being gone for so long took him out of his regular routine and it takes him a few days to get back to normal. Does anyone else have the same problem??
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believe it or not, Me, Myself and I have that problem! you'd think DH would have it but he's happier than a purring cat when he gets home.. me, i have to go from essentially "being single" to "being married"...or sometimes i call it "independent" to "dependent" and it's kinda hard to do because you get so used to depending soley on yourself....typically, it takes me a night to get back to married norm...not often longer than that.
but your situation sounds way different in that you'd think he'd be happy when he gets home...cuz it's "home" and not a hotel. is it really taking him days to get used to be home or get used to someone being there to talk to? are you handing him situations right off when he gets home or giving him a breather break before getting back into the household things again? is he also giving you time for yourself while he's home?
I feel for ya, i do...and it sounds to me like maybe you need to sit close to each other and talk a bit more...get that connection going right when he gets home (everything else, including the kids) can wait a few minutes.
btw.. how are the hugs? are they nice and long because if so, then sometimes , IMO, that can circumvent the kisses cuz it's technically the same type of intimacy.