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Originally Posted by JenniPage Thank you!
He actually called at like 4 AM. He says that he had been sick all day and then fell asleep. I wish that I believed him more. But, this happens all the time.
I get so mad at myself for always forgiving him for this stuff... But, like I've said before, there is just something about him that makes none of the rules seem to apply.
Thank you, again!!! |
First of all, don't ever apologize for how you feel!
I was always one of those really needy people who needed constant contact and reinforcement. Well, as you know, that has to change really quickly or you'll drive yourself crazy.
It just plain sucks when someone you care about is gone all of the time and you never see them... if you don't get to talk to them either, it REALLY wears you down.
Saying they're going to call and then not calling is a pet peeve of mine..

Brian is the worst about falling asleep and then not calling. It used to really drive me nuts, but after a while I found out that sometimes he just crashes because his sleep schedule gets so out of synch.
It's good that he finally called you though, no matter what time it is.
I hope that soon you'll be able to really talk to him about what your expectations are as far as communicating... it's sooo important!
On a side note, I read that you're a performing artist - is that you in your signature?? Wow!!!